I am so thrilled to post this. I have to say, being a part of LitSisters has changed my life in the most amazing way. And we are starting 2010 off with a bang! Not only did our boutique publishing house, LitSisters Publishing, launch today, but we also were featured on the home page of [...]
I joined the work force full-time in the late ‘70’s when the accepted career model looked like a ladder. The cartoon version showed a man climbing up even if it meant climbing over others. The route was narrow and only allowed one person on each step at a time. Up was the only direction desired. Walking on others was allowed and even encouraged by some. The ladder stayed grounded. The person moved one measured rung at a time. You could stay in place and hang on. If you fell off, you were toast or like in the game Shoots and Ladders, you had to start all over, again.
I never liked this model. I’ve had a lot of jobs and enjoyed a solid level of career success in terms of titles, responsibilities and compensation. But, I’ve also chosen to think of my career in terms of a carousel not a ladder. I’ve ridden a number of mounts, on an ever moving platform and when I’ve gotten bored, I’ve surveyed to my left, my right, in front and behind to find the new ride that was of interest or presented a colorful opportunity.
Please don’t get me wrong. I am not some Polly Anna skipping down the primrose path looking at the world through rose colored glasses. I’ve tackled tough jobs and worked hard. I’m just saying that life isn’t linear. And, life is more fun when there is music playing. And, no matter how hard you may try to keep things steady and upright and moving forward, life is filled with all kinds of motion and commotion, ups and downs.
So, it’s okay to get up and move around. Explore uncommon opportunities. Stop and say hi to others. Grab a handhold if you need to. But, you can get off, carefully, for awhile, to take a break, take on other important roles outside of your career, concentrate on home or babies or caring for aging relatives. Then, when you’re ready, step back on, find the mount that’s available that suits your needs without pushing anyone off to take their place or stepping on or over anyone to get there. Seek out options knowing there’s more than what’s directly above you. And never forget, it’s just a ride.
Over the past couple of years, I’ve read lots of books about how to build a business and how to find happiness doing what you love. Why? I was trying to find a way to make money, doing what I loved — writing. Last January, at the height of our economic downturn, I finally found success as a full-time writer. Three books have stuck out in my mind as life-changing. I recommend you read them; they may change your life, too!
Have you read these books? If so, let me know what you think? If not, check them out!
